Working With a Difficult Coworker

发布日期:2026-08-28 職場與商務 Level 2
Working With a Difficult Coworker
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背景
职场中,每个人的沟通方式与工作习惯都不同,因此同事之间偶尔会发生摩擦。通过具体讨论问题、尊重彼此需求,通常比直接责备更能改善合作关系。
  • 艾蜜莉与难相处的同事合作
  • 她先了解对方的工作习惯
  • 双方针对工作方式进行沟通
  • 创建清楚规则后合作改善
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Listen First

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Reading

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English

Emily works with Jack on a monthly sales report. Jack is experienced, but he often changes the report without telling her. Sometimes he sends important information late, so Emily has to work quickly before the deadline. She feels frustrated because she is not sure which version is correct.

At first, Emily wanted to complain to their supervisor. Instead, she decided to speak with Jack directly. She invited him to have coffee and described the problem calmly. She used examples from the last two reports rather than making a personal criticism.

Jack explained that he liked to make changes after checking new numbers. He did not realize that his actions made Emily's work more difficult. Together, they created a simple process: Jack would mark every change and send new information before three o'clock. Emily would review the report and ask questions in one message.

The new process did not solve every problem immediately. However, their communication became clearer, and they began to trust each other more. When Jack missed a time once, Emily reminded him about their agreement instead of becoming angry. Working with a difficult coworker was still challenging, but a respectful conversation made the job much easier.

中文翻译

艾蜜莉和杰克一起制作每月的销售报告。杰克很有经验,但他常常在没有告知她的情况下修改报告。有时他很晚才寄来重要信息,所以艾蜜莉必须在期限前快速工作。她感到很挫折,因为她不确定哪个版本才是正确的。

一开始,艾蜜莉想向主管抱怨。然而,她决定直接和杰克谈谈。她邀请他一起喝咖啡,平静地描述问题。她提出前两份报告的具体例子,而不是进行人身批评。

杰克解释说,他习惯在确认新数字后才修改内容。他不知道自己的行动让艾蜜莉的工作更加困难。他们一起创建了一个简单的流程:杰克要标示每项修改,并在下午三点前寄出新信息。艾蜜莉则会检查报告,并在一封消息中提出问题。

新的流程没有立刻解决所有问题。然而,他们的沟通变得更清楚,也开始更加信任彼此。有一次杰克晚了些时间,艾蜜莉提醒他们的约定,而不是生气。和难相处的同事合作仍然具有挑战,但一次尊重彼此的谈话让工作容易多了。

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Key Words

重点词汇词组
5 个
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Expressions

惯用句
5 则
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Conversation

情境对话
15 句

以下是延伸自本篇主题的情境对话,试着跟着念,再把自己的想法说出来。

00:00 / 00:00
E
Emily
Hi Jack, can we talk about the monthly sales report?
嗨,Jack,我们可以谈谈每月的销售报告吗?
J
Jack
Sure. Is there a problem with the report?
当然可以。报告有什么问题吗?
E
Emily
Sometimes you change the report without telling me, so I am not sure which version is correct.
有时候你会直接修改报告却没告诉我,所以我不确定哪个版本才是正确的。
J
Jack
I usually make changes after I check the new numbers.
我通常是在确认新数字后才修改报告。
E
Emily
I understand, but sometimes you send me the information very late.
我了解,但你有时候太晚才把数据传给我。
J
Jack
I did not realize that it made your work more difficult.
我不知道这会让你的工作变得更困难。
E
Emily
For example, I had to finish the last report very quickly before the deadline.
例如,上次我得在截止时间前很快地完成报告。
J
Jack
I am sorry about that. What can we do to improve our work?
很抱歉。那我们可以怎么做来改善合作呢?
E
Emily
Could you mark every change you make in the report?
你修改报告时,可以把每一项变更都标示出来吗?
J
Jack
Yes, and I can send you new information before three o'clock.
可以,而且我可以在三点前把新数据传给你。
E
Emily
Great. I will review the report and ask questions in one message.
很好。我会检查报告,并把问题集中在一则消息里询问。
J
Jack
That sounds like a simple and clear process.
这听起来是一个简单又清楚的流程。
E
Emily
Yes, and if we follow it, we can avoid many problems.
对,只要我们照这个流程做,就能避免很多问题。
J
Jack
I agree. I will try to follow our agreement from now on.
我同意。从现在开始,我会尽量遵守我们的约定。
E
Emily
Thanks, Jack. Talking about it respectfully will make our work much easier.
谢谢你,Jack。用尊重的方式谈清楚,会让我们的工作轻松很多。
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Practice

课后测验
讨论 3 题

Discussion

问题与讨论
3 题

以下问题没有标准答案,请试着用英文说出自己的想法,一题讲三到五句话。

  1. 1 How would you talk to a coworker who often gives you information late? Please describe the words you would use.
  2. 2 What is the difference between making a personal criticism and giving a useful example at work?
  3. 3 Tell us about a time when you had to cooperate with someone whose work style was different from yours.